We don’t see things as they are, we see them as we are.

The contrast in scenes from 2 years ago, to today, takes my breath away. No one can fully prepare to see their child go through a traumatic surgery, yet I wouldn’t trade the experience for anything. It has given me greater perspective, and also shaped both of my daughters .. giving them a view of life, love, family, and friendship, far beyond their years.

Solana’s love for her little sister makes my heart swell. She was nervous for Iris, but never shied away from supporting her. Instead, she visited Iris in the hospital each day, gently stroking her hair, singing sweetly to her, taking her for rides in a red wagon, celebrating victories, and offering encouragement every step of the way.

Iris, at 6 years of age, fully understands that life is a gift. She’s seizing it with an almost unfathomable vigor. She knows she has physical limitations, but she pushes those limits daily .. hiking, swimming, dancing ballet, and showing the world that she is a warrior in every sense of the word.

My journey with my daughters has reshaped nearly everything I thought I knew about life. I’ve found a deeper strength in myself, a greater acceptance of myself, and a love that transcends fear, challenges, and loss.

This amazing journey has reaffirmed what I hope to teach my girls: To fight for what they believe in, and respect others doing the same. Use their voices .. especially on behalf of those who can’t. Trust their faith, and don’t be afraid to lean on it. Embrace and explore their intellectual curiosity. Never forget that love is all around them. Focus less on life’s limitless possibilities, and more on the simple thought that there is so much life .. in life.

We wish you a wonderful summer! Love and hugs, The Hickey Girls